Parts Work
Helping You Feel Whole & Grounded Again
Parts Work Available in Calgary and Online across Alberta
Parts work is amazing for women who appear put-together on the outside, yet inside they are struggling with anxiety, self-doubt, emotional pain, and a relentless sense of not being good enough.
Many of my clients juggle heavy responsibilities at work and at home, often working in helping professions while carrying the weight of their own emotional pain. They may feel trapped in cycles of overwhelm, perfectionism, people-pleasing, self-criticism, or imposter syndrome.
I provide compassionate, depth-oriented Parts work to help women heal unresolved trauma, build emotional resilience, and reclaim a grounded, authentic relationship with themselves.
Understanding Parts Work
As an experienced therapist, I integrate a number of different approaches to parts work therapy, including IFS-informed Parts work and Trauma Informed Stabilization Treatment (TIST) into my trauma focused practice. There are many approaches to parts work therapy, all based on the idea that we each have many “parts” or aspects of ourselves that carry different emotions, beliefs, and roles to help us navigate life's challenges When trauma occurs, some parts may become protective while others carry the pain of those experiences.
If you feel stuck—despite all your hard work and best intentions—parts work therapy can offer you valuable insight and relief. Often, it’s not a lack of effort that holds us back, but inner conflicts between different parts of ourselves. When these parts are in tension—one striving for change, another protecting against risk or vulnerability—they can quietly sabotage your progress and leave you feeling frustrated or overwhelmed.
Understand your Parts
When you’ve been carrying anxiety, self-doubt, and the effects of unresolved emotional pain and trauma for years - it can feel like different parts of you are constantly at odds - one part pushing through and performing, another part overwhelmed and exhausted, and yet another holding old pain or fear. Parts work provides a framework for understanding and healing these internal dynamics so you can move toward healing with greater clarity, ease, and self-compassion.Parts work therapy, informed by Internal Family Systems principles, recognizes that we all have different aspects of our personality that serve various functions. This approach helps you:
Through parts work, you'll learn to identify and understand the different parts within your internal system:
Protective Parts
These parts developed to keep you safe and may include:
The inner critic that drives perfectionism
The people-pleaser that avoids conflict
The achiever that pushes for success
The controller that tries to manage outcomes
Wounded Parts
These parts carry emotional pain, trauma, and unmet needs. They may hold:
Childhood hurt and disappointment
Feelings of abandonment or rejection
Shame and self-doubt
Fear and anxiety about safety
Self
At your core exists your Wise Self - the compassionate, and curious part of you that can lead your internal system with clarity and care.
Trauma Informed Stabilization Treatment
Developed by internationally respected trauma expert Dr. Janina Fisher, TIST is an evidence-based, phase-based model that combines IFS-informed parts work, trauma neuroscience, and somatic awareness.
TIST is especially effective for women living with complex trauma from childhood abuse, emotional neglect, repeated relational trauma, or prolonged exposure to stress. Many of my clients feel stuck in survival mode, exhausted, emotionally overwhelmed, and constantly on alert despite their outward appearance of competence. TIST offers a compassionate, structured path forward.
Rather than asking "What is wrong with me?" TIST shifts the focus to "What happened to me?" and gently supports you in understanding and healing the protective patterns that helped you survive but may now be holding you back.
The Three Phases of TIST
Phase 1: Stabilization and Safety
The first phase focuses on creating internal and external safety, developing coping skills, and building resources for emotional regulation. This includes psychoeducation about trauma's effects on the brain and body, skills for emotional regulation and distress tolerance, techniques to expand your "window of tolerance," grounding and self-soothing strategies, and understanding your internal parts and their protective roles.
Phase 2: Processing and Healing
When you feel ready and well-resourced, we move carefully into processing traumatic experiences. This involves processing traumatic memories at a pace that honours your nervous system and using evidence-based approaches such as EMDR and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), always in collaboration with your parts system and with a focus on safety.
Phase 3: Integration and Growth
Finally, we support you in integrating your healing into everyday life. This phase involves developing healthier, more authentic relationships, strengthening resilience and self-compassion, creating meaning from your experiences, and moving forward with greater freedom, clarity, and confidence.
One core benefit of this approach is improved emotional regulation. You will develop greater awareness of emotional states and triggers, the ability to identify triggers before they overwhelm you, practical techniques to self-regulate in challenging situations, and a more balanced nervous system response to stress.
Parts work therapy also equips you with essential coping skills for managing life's challenges while developing greater self-compassion. You will build a stronger sense of self-efficacy, learn to establish healthy boundaries in relationships, develop greater flexibility in thinking and problem-solving, and cultivate a deeper connection to your personal values and strengths.
In daily life, these approaches can help you respond to triggers with more calm and clarity, set and maintain healthy boundaries with less guilt or fear, increase focus and productivity in your work and life, improve sleep quality and restore a sense of restfulness, make decisions with greater confidence and self-trust, and experience more moments of ease, connection, and fulfillment.
How Parts Work Integrates with Other Approaches
Within my practice, I integrate parts work with other evidence-based trauma therapies to provide comprehensive healing. EMDR therapy helps process traumatic memories and reduce emotional distress through bilateral stimulation. Within the TIST framework, EMDR is used with careful attention to your parts and internal system, ensuring processing happens at a pace that feels safe and manageable.
For clients seeking more concentrated trauma processing, I offer EMDR Intensives, which are extended sessions that allow for deeper processing within a shorter time frame. I also offer Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), another powerful approach that uses eye movements to help the brain process memories. Many clients appreciate that neither EMDR nor ART requires verbally sharing details of trauma, making these approaches excellent for those who find discussing traumatic experiences overwhelming.
Trauma is not just stored in memories; it is often held in the body. Somatic approaches, including those used within TIST, EMDR, and ART, help you increase awareness of physical sensations and nervous system patterns, track changes in your body to recognize stress or safety signals, and restore healthy nervous system regulation.
Benefits of Parts Work and TIST
You too can benefit from Parts Work Therapy
I specialize in working with women in Calgary and throughout Alberta, particularly those experiencing high-functioning anxiety, trauma and PTSD, and significant life transitions and stress.
Women with High-Functioning Anxiety
You may look successful on the outside, but inside it’s a mess. You are constantly fighting persistent worries, the need to be perfect, racing thoughts that won’t slow down, and the never-ending pressure to be in control in all areas of life. For professional women, like you, high-functioning anxiety is often an invisible struggle that no-one really sees. I see you!
Women Healing from Trauma
You may be struggling with impacts of trauma - maybe from childhood, from medical experiences, from witnessing other’s trauma at work, or maybe you have recently experienced something overwhelming. Complex trauma, resulting from repeated or prolonged traumatic experiences, can significantly impact how you view yourself, others, and the world. The TIST approach is particularly effective for complex trauma because it prioritizes stabilization and resource-building before processing, reducing the risk of retraumatization.
Women Navigating Life Transitions
You may be managing major life changes while juggling multiple responsibilities, chronic stress, and the challenge of maintaining their external image of competence. You might particularly benefit from my approach if you work in a helping profession or high-stress career, exhibit perfectionism and people-pleasing tendencies, experience burnout despite achievements, notice stress affecting your physical health, or have faced a recent crisis that motivated you to seek deeper help.
My Approach
Creating Safety and Stability
As a trauma-informed therapist, I prioritize creating a safe, supportive environment where all parts of you are welcome. This safety is essential for effective parts work therapy, allowing protective and vulnerable parts to gradually engage in the healing process.
Personalized Treatment
I recognize that every person's internal system is unique, shaped by individual life experiences and circumstances. My approach using TIST and IFS-informed parts work is tailored to your specific needs, history, and therapeutic goals.
Integration of Therapy Modalities
The TIST model allows for the integration of various evidence-based approaches, including EMDR, ART, somatic techniques, and other modalities as appropriate for your healing journey. This flexibility ensures comprehensive treatment that addresses your whole person.
What to Expect
Initial Consultation
I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to discuss your current challenges and determine if my approach aligns with your needs.
First Appointment
Your first 50-minute appointment serves as a comprehensive intake session where I gather information about your history, current concerns, and therapeutic goals. This allows me to create a personalized treatment plan.
Regular Sessions
We meet weekly or biweekly, depending on your needs and phase of treatment. In the initial stabilization phase, consistent attendance is particularly important for building safety and developing coping resources.
Throughout our work, I may offer between-session practices and homework to help you apply insights and skills in your daily life, supporting the integration of healing between sessions.
EMDR & ART
For those ready for memory processing work, I offer:
Regular EMDR sessions integrated with parts work
EMDR Intensives for more concentrated processing
ART sessions for rapid trauma processing
Begin Your Healing Journey
Frequently Asked Questions
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Unlike approaches that focus primarily on changing thoughts or behaviors, IFS-informed parts work addresses the underlying structure of your internal system. By working with the parts that generate symptoms rather than just managing the symptoms themselves, this approach creates deeper and more sustainable transformation. You learn to understand why certain patterns developed and how to create lasting change from within.
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TIST stands out because it combines IFS-informed Parts Work, trauma neuroscience, and structural dissociation theory into a practical, phase-based model. While many trauma therapies focus primarily on memory processing, TIST begins with building nervous system stability and unblending from reactive parts. This helps you feel more present and grounded before exploring past experiences, which is especially important for complex trauma.
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When left untreated, traumatic experiences can manifest in many forms, including PTSD symptoms like flashbacks and nightmares, persistent anxiety and hypervigilance, difficulty forming and maintaining healthy relationships, physical symptoms with no clear medical cause, intrusive thoughts and traumatic memories, emotional regulation difficulties, and chronic stress affecting your nervous system. These symptoms are not a sign of weakness; they are your body and mind's natural response to overwhelming experiences. Parts work therapy acknowledges that these responses made sense in the context of your experiences and provides a path forward to healing.
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Yes, TIST is particularly well-suited for complex trauma because of its emphasis on stabilization and resource-building before any memory processing begins. This phased approach reduces the risk of retraumatization and helps you develop the internal resources needed to process difficult experiences safely.
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Absolutely. For women with high-functioning anxiety, parts work offers a comprehensive approach to understanding and healing the underlying dynamics driving anxiety. Rather than simply managing symptoms, you learn to work with the protective parts that create anxiety responses, often providing more lasting relief than symptom-focused approaches alone.
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Within my practice, EMDR and ART are used with careful attention to your parts system. This means processing happens at a pace that feels safe and manageable, with your protective parts informed and on board. This integration often makes trauma processing more effective and less overwhelming than using these approaches in isolation.
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Yes, TIST and IFS-informed Parts Work are particularly effective for narcissistic abuse recovery because they help address the internal wounds, nervous system impacts, and protective patterns that can result from this type of relational trauma. Many women find they continue to struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, shame, and loss of trust in themselves after these relationships. Parts work helps you recognize subtle forms of manipulation and gaslighting, rebuild trust in your own perceptions, reestablish healthy boundaries, and reconnect with your authentic self.
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An important aspect of IFS-informed Parts Work is recognizing how certain patterns of belief, emotional pain, and coping strategies can be passed down through families. These inherited patterns often shape how we see ourselves, relate to others, and respond to stress, sometimes without conscious awareness. In our work together, we help your parts release inherited burdens so you can create new patterns for yourself and future generations.
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The duration varies based on individual needs, trauma complexity, and therapeutic goals. During your free consultation, we can discuss what a realistic timeline might look like for your specific situation.
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While I do not bill directly to insurance providers, I provide receipts that you can submit for possible reimbursement. Many extended health plans cover services provided by registered therapists.
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No. One of the benefits of approaches like EMDR and ART is that they do not require you to verbally share details of your trauma. This makes these approaches excellent for those who find discussing traumatic experiences overwhelming. You remain in control of what you share throughout our work together.
Conveniently located in the Altius Centre near Eau Clair in Downtown Calgary, Resilience Counselling and Consulting is a trauma-informed practice that also serves the entire province of Alberta virtually. The practice is LGBTQ2S+ and neurodiversity-affirming, with a primary specialization in helping women navigate emotional pain, trauma, anxiety, and stuck patterns. Integrating highly effective processing methods like ART and EMDR, parts work, somatic body based work and insight based therapy, the practice offers a comprehensive path for clients to reclaim their lives from the grip of anxiety and trauma.
You don’t have to live life feeling trapped.